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How to Preserve Your Individuality While Quarantining with Your Partner Danstel 31 July 2020  For many of us, we are one more month into being quarantined with our partner. While this can be an opportunity to take a break from the busyness and distractions of our “normal” lives and reconnect with our loved one, it is also a time when we can lose touch with who we are as individuals. Within this smaller world of being with one person a majority of the time, it is easy to get into a rut together and begin to take each other for granted. And worst of all, we can fall into old patterns of relating with one another and lose a sense of who we are. On top of that, we are currently cut off from many of our “outside” interests that are unique to us and make up a vital part of who we are. All of these factors can leave us feeling dull and out of sorts. And when our partner also loses touch with their individuality, our relationship becomes less dynamic and exciting. It’s important that we st...

Ways to Improve Your Relationship While Sheltering at Home DANSTEL 1 july 2020  Just as it has with pretty much everything else in our lives, Covid-19 has had a significant impact on our relationships. Pair the novelty of the situation with the increased uncertainty and stress of coping with a global pandemic, and what we’ll find is that most couples are facing new strains on their relationship that are making life at home all the more difficult. The first thing to do if you find yourself in this situation is to take a deep breath and realize you are not alone. In a survey conducted in April only 18% of couples reported satisfaction in communication with their partner. Yet, with the rise in new challenges comes an opportunity to learn long-term strategies to overcome obstacles and deepen your connection. By adopting certain principles, couples can use this time to not just survive but to actually thrive. 1. Support your spouse in doing the things that ...

Five (5) Signs He Is A Serial Cheat AUTHOR:  Danstel   PUBLISHED DATE:  july 1 2020 Sometimes in relationships, we choose to ignore the obvious and not-so-obvious red flags either because we really don’t know that they’re red flags or because we just want to hang on to the initial green light and spark we got at the beginning of the relationship. Whatever group you belong to, it’s important that you know what these red flags are and identify them on time before things get out of hands and your heart is left completely shattered. Below, I share 5 signs that shows the man you’re dating just might be a serial cheater. Thank me later! HIS TEXTING GOES HOT AND COLD This is common with guys who have so many other girls they are keeping up with due to sudden disinterest. CHANGES IN HIS ROUTINE The main changes you should be concerned about are those that result in them being unavailable to spend time with you. If your partner fixes a date with you and then suddenly bails ou...

See How You Can Make A Stale Relationship Hot Again AUTHOR:  danstel    PUBLISHED DATE:  july1, 2020   Here’s what it means if your relationship is going dull—and how to get out of a rut without breaking up. Step 1: Stop Worrying If you two have been together for a while, getting bored at some point is pretty inevitable. Our brains are hardwired to look for the newest, most exciting things, says Sussman. We get tired of the same routine in every aspect of our lives—jobs, fitness routines—and that goes for our relationships, too. “Expect it to happen, notice it, and try to make a change,” says Sussman. So what do you do? Well, you could break up and shift from relationship to relationship, always ending it once you get bored. Or, if you value your partner and want to make it work, move on to the next two steps. Step 2: Figure Out the Root Cause First, determine if this is mere boredom or something bigger. While feeling uninspired in a relationship can b...

Having a better relationship  AUTHOR:  Danstel   PUBLISHED DATE:  July 30 2020    Men are visual creatures and this perhaps inform the reason why most want the light on. Science has proved it and, in the same vein, supported the claim that women are simply complex and determining the traits that attracts them is as complex as they are. However, what women want is actually fairly forthright. For a lot of women, physicality is not everything. Women want a man brimming with brains and emotional depth to a certain extent. While you might not always feel like the total package, or even know what that entails, here are a number of personality traits women often seek in serious partners. Aptitude Intelligence goes beyond the books and business acumen. A man who is knowledgeable at his craft, be it selling commercial real estate or mixing cocktails, will be seen as $exy. Women are captivated by challenge, and a man that has the will to challenge himself to any leve...

Having a better relationship  AUTHOR:  danstel    PUBLISHED DATE:  July 30 2020   Ever wondered what makes the difference between a bad fling and a perfect relationship? These 15 relationship tips for women will show you the way! Being a single woman in a world full of couples and hitched folks can be rather annoying, especially if you’re looking for the one in all the wrong places. It may even leave you wondering if you’re just unlucky, especially if all your friends seem to be dating somebody who seems perfect. Have you been dating a string of guys, all of who seem perfect to begin with, only to find that they’re just so wrong for you? Relationship tips for single women If you’re having a hard time finding Mr. Right in the long list of the wrong guys, here are 15 simple relationship tips for women that can help you understand guys and their mind better, and even help you bring out your best dating side in no time. #1 Don’t think so much!  When you’re...

Three  3 things to have in other to have the right partner  AUTHOR:  danstel    PUBLISHED DATE:  July 30 2020   When people are single and searching, it is not uncommon for them to ask questions such as, what do I need to do right to meet that special person who will become the love of my life? One of the frequently-asked questions for people like this is:  ‘what am I getting wrong?’  ‘what do I need to do better?’ and ‘what do I need to get right?’ If you are single and need to know which habits will make it easier to get the type of man or woman you desire, here are some of them below. Mind you, these are not conclusive rules but they are valid and important for anyone who really has one or more of the questions above and truly increases your chance to meet that lover you’ve always wanted. 1. Self love Finding love starts with loving yourself because, really, if you do not love yourself, who will? It will be difficult to show people how to ...