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How to Make Love Last DanstEL August 1,2020 In June, during the first warm days of summer, we behold the most popular month to get married, while in the frosty winter month of January, we witness the most divorces. Throughout the wedding season, many of us are filled with feelings of optimism and hope for lasting romance. Yet, weather aside, by the time a colder season sets in, many people are left asking themselves what causes a marriage (or any serious relationship for that matter) to turn icy and warm feelings of love to freeze over. Often, when a couple comes to therapy dissatisfied with or worried about their relationship, there are certain patterns that can be observed. A shift has often taken place within the couple that has left them estranged from their early feelings of tenderness and attraction. This shift involves a slow movement away from the romance and closeness they originally experienced toward a more routine and conventional style of relating. The initial allure or de...

Adorable Good Night Messages for Your Beloved Man (Must Read) AUTHOR:  danstel    PUBLISHED DATE:  August 1 2020   If you love someone, you probably exchange sweet texts at any time, no matter if it is day or night. Sometimes you want to send your love a beautiful good night message to make them smile. Here, we will give you some ideas for a good night message for him. Make your boyfriend or husband happy with a lovely good night SMS. LOVE MESSAGES FOR HIM So many people underestimate the power of romantic text messages when in reality they can preserve warm feelings between two people and make their relationship stronger. If you send your significant other a good night love SMS, he will know that he is always on your mind. One thing you should take into account that these messages are better to be sent to the person who you are in a long and trusting relationship with. Sometimes, if you have just met the guy and you start sending him these messages, he might no...

Don’t Ever Consider Marrying These 10 Types Of Women (For Men) AUTHOR:  danstel    PUBLISHED DATE:  August 1,2020   It’s not every woman you came across fits to get married to, some might look good physically but bad inside while there is the other way round. Here are the 10 types of women you shouldn’t consider marrying; 1. The Chatterbox This is the woman who never shuts up, barely stopping to breathe. Seemingly only concerned about what is going on in her life, she always has to make a comment about everything and dominates conversations. 2. The Desperate Chick This type of woman will seem fantastic at first, until she starts talking about your wedding location, how many kids she wants and the name of your future dog–right after the first date! When a woman advances WAY faster than normal,watch out. She NEEDS a man so bad that she’s willing to put anybody in that slot, even the homeless guy on the corner. 3. The Overly-Critical Woman Anything you do for this ...

Eight (8) Awesome Things Women Don’t Realize About Men AUTHOR:  danstel    PUBLISHED DATE:  August 1,2020    We always hear “all men are the same”, but we hate to hear that “all women are the same”. There are certain characteristics men do have in common, like wise women also, but that doesn’t mean we all are the same. we analyse things differently from our emotions and how we grew up. There a lot of things women don’t realize about mean and tend to bling their eyes to them because of what the society have classified them under. Here are amazing similar secrets guys possess that women fail to notice. If a guy likes you, he will tell you. This isn’t the same as a lady. A lady might tell you if she likes you, or most times she just might not. we love being attracted and enjoy attention, so we may not be direct about it. But when a guy likes you, you would know. Not only would he tell you, but he will show you. Guys are usually honest and straight forward with...

Five (5) Habits That Women Find Very Attractive In Men Apart From Look AUTHOR:  Danstel   PUBLISHED DATE:  August 1,2020 There are a few habits and behaviors can increase your chances of attraction than your looks. Forget the six packs, the well-defined biceps, and triceps. We want to indulge your mind with an alternative reality of what it takes to become that guy that women want to talk with, spend time with, and date.   So are you ready? Let’s get started. 1. SELF CONFIDENCE Women like men who are sure of themselves. A nervous, uncertain guy may leave too much decision-making up to women, and that puts the burden on them to make the right decisions or risk disapproval. Nerves can also be contagious in a social setting; a man with self-confidence can put a woman at ease. 2. EMPATHY There is a fine line between being confident and being arrogant. Whether in business or in a personal relationship, it is important not to put others down to build yourself up. Being mea...

Getting the Love You Want DansteL 31 July 2020  Breaking patterns to a better Relationship  Two questions I’ve heard frequently  “Why do my attempts at relationships keep ending in failure?” and “Are my standards too high? No one I want seems to want me.” The truth is that we all have different internal struggles that get in our way when it comes to finding and maintaining the love we say we want. However, there are certain patterns we bring to our relationships that are based on our past and that often lead us to the same relationship outcomes. The good news is, if we can be open, curious, and willing to explore these patterns and where they come from, we can take a great deal of power over our romantic lives. We can change our romantic destiny and enjoy closer, healthier, and more fulfilling relationships. Understanding and changing unhealthy relationship habits involves looking into our past. The first thing we can do is explore our  attachment history . The attac...