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How to have Showers Sex safely

 

How to have shower s*x safely

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Shower sex is the type of intercourse that happens in the shower. If you’ve watched many Hollywood movies, you should know of steamy shower sex scenes.

Have you ever wondered how to do it without hurting yourself? Well, if you have, I have some tips for you.

You might want to do this if you have a shower and not with a bucket and bowl.

Also, the water needs to be lukewarm, if it’s too cold, you’ll be shivering. Can you engage in shower sex with a bucket and bowl? Maybe, but it is much better with an actual shower.

The point of shower sex isn’t to scrub your bodies till they are sparkling clean.

Take it easy on the soap or shower gel, do not lather up so much. Lather can cause either of you to slip.

Also, if the bar of soap drops, pick it up immediately, you do not want to fall because of it.

Of course, penetration can happen in the shower, several styles can work, but that isn’t the goal.

It is much better to engage in foreplay (like oral sex) and then carry the action somewhere else, but if you must stay in the shower at least one of you should have both feet firmly to the ground, be seated properly or have their backs to the wall.

Do not lean on anything that can make you slip easily.

For proper balance use a shower mat, you can easily slip, a shower mat will keep you properly grounded.

Touching bodies is a sure way to create some sensuality and keep the intimacy flowing.

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